Struggling at Christmas

Our less than perfect but still totally awesome Christmas creations.

This year I have been really struggling with my depression in these last months leading up to the holidays. Halloween and Thankgiving were things to get through – as much as I love our family and traditions. It hit a breaking point about two weeks ago and I’ve gotten some professional help for myself. I’m doing better – it always scares me to say that because I’m waiting for the other shoe to drop. I need to remember to enjoy the good days and focus on every one that I have.

This Christmas season isn’t the sparkly, perfectly planned one that I envisioned. That’s OK. I want to share a few thoughts for anyone else struggling – because you aren’t alone.

BE KIND TO YOURSELF – don’t beat yourself up! Sometimes getting your teeth brushed is the biggest challenge you can take on today and that’s ok! Sometimes NOT doing something is the best way to take care of yourself. That’s OK too! Any kindness you can manage to give yourself – is worth it and a spark will grow. You and I are worthy.

IT DOESN’T HAVE TO BE PERFECT – Not all of our Christmas decorations got up this year. I couldn’t find the joy it usually gives me. My husband got some things out and we have out tree up. It’s OK to have a good enough Christmas – whatever that looks like for you. Do what you can manage and don’t compare your efforts to others.

ASK FOR HELP – you’ll be surprised! Sometimes the people who love and care about us don’t know how much we are truly struggling. Let people show how much they care about you. My husband making a meal in the crockpot last night raised my spirits so much! Let people in and see if it helps.

Christmas is CRAZY. There are all of these expectations and preconceived ideas of what it should be. Have the Christmas that makes sense in your life.

Marjorie

Wrapping up the school year

Well, it’s official! I just sent in the 4th Quarter report to the school district and our formal homeschooling year is over. There’s been some good and some not so great – we suffered a severe case of burnout in the second half of the year. It’s bittersweet because my oldest is headed back to school and it was wonderful to see him grow as a learner and young man. My younger son definitely isn’t sure what he wants to do yet – he likes to keep his options open (which I am cool with).

Now, we go on a more relaxed daily schedule which I devised last year. The kids have a menu of activities to choose from that earn them points towards using electronics. They have to do some “basics” first before they can earn extra points or use any points. These include some basic self care, reading, writing in their journals, and sometimes chores. I am excited about doing some fun projects with them like tie-dye and rock painting.

It’s been nice seeing them back in sports and doing activities. We have a very full summer ahead of us. I’m most excited about our week in the Adirondacks. I want to swim and sit in front of a campfire for hours.

I hope you all get to enjoy your summer!

Marjorie

Egg-bots!

I’m just writing to share an awesome activity that my 7 yr old came up with! I was sort of incapacitated the other day due to insomnia and receiving my COVID-19 vaccine the day before. I didn’t experience terrible side effects except that my arm was very sore. I was super tired too, but I’m not sure whether that was the not sleeping or the vaccine.

Anyhow, my kids were left to their own devices – I was there but not super functional. The little man starts playing with empty plastic eggs and taping all sorts of materials to them. He got into a drawer of supplies I’ve put together and also the recycling bin. He came up with flying eggs, silly eggs, eggs that could stand and also tried copying some ideas he’d seen on egg drop videos.

This activity was only limited by his imagination and could surely be expanded upon!

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Materials used by my kiddo:

  • plastic eggs
  • masking tape
  • feathers
  • plastic shopping bag
  • paper party streamers
  • wooden craft sticks
  • cardboard
  • pom poms
  • paper straws

There are so many other things you could use – plastic silverware, string, beads, beans or some other filler to make noise when shook!

This is a great way to use some of those plastic eggs I KNOW you still have around and could be added or adapted into a lesson.

Thanks for reading!!

-Marjorie

Christmas Activity Planning Freebie!

Don’t fear friends! I’m still working on my Ultimate Christmas Planner – 2021 edition! For now – here’s another freebie: Christmas Activity Planner !

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I find this portion very exciting because I’m looking forward to visiting some reindeer or maybe listening to some live Christmas music with my family. I feel like we don’t do this part of Christmas often enough – because we are always rushing around shopping and don’t plan for it particularly well.

Building this planner has given me hope that this might be our BEST Christmas ever!

If you have any ideas or ways to improve these worksheets – please email me at marj.sanpietro@gmail.com.

-Marjorie

Free Reading Quizzes ~ MTH #6

My younger son is reading the Magic Tree House series by Mary Pope Osborne. We’ve been doing reading quizzes after every book to check his comprehension and (since he likes to read to himself) hold him accountable for the reading.

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I’ve been lucky and found some great free resources on teacherspayteachers.com but we’re on book # 6 now, Afternoon in the Amazon. I created a quick reading quiz and then (because my printer is eternally out of ink) converted it to a Google form so that he could complete it on the computer. You are more than welcome to use them! I may make more in the future.

They aren’t pretty – no weird scholastic smiley people here – but I think they are appropriate for 1st-3rd grade depending on reading level.

Here’s the printable version!

Here’s the Google form (instantly shows score – out of 10 points – and the correct answer)!

Hope this is helpful to somebody~

Marjorie

Christmas 2021 prep freebie!!

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As promised – I wanted to share the first freebie with you! This gift planner/tracker will come in handy for sure! Some people like to shop all at once near the holidays and some people shop all year round. I normally do a mixture of both – but I’m going to get this filled out early in case I find ideas or better yet, DEALS.

A big goal of mine is to also buy for the adults in my family this year. Money around Christmas time is always tight and we try to focus our magic on the kids – including my amazing nieces and nephews.

If I plan for the adults and decide how much I’d like to spend – then I can have it done and feel good about it.

Another thing that could be beneficial about early procurement – early wrapping! I’ve decided to store my wrapping paper closer at hand this year. As I buy a present, I plan on wrapping and tagging it so it’s ready to go. This handy list will help you remember what you bought so that it’s just a surprise for the recipient…LOL.

You can get this freebie here!

The next freebie will be a gift breakdown for individual kids – you can use it for other family members too, if their Christmas will be a little more extensive.

The final draft will be prettier – with more features. It will also include more of my personal insight! Hopefully 100% available in late April!

-Marjorie

Christmas 2021?!

I had a great Christmas this year! But…like always, we left many things till the absolute last minute! I had a terrible migraine Christmas Eve so Dave was left with a lot of last minute magic to make happen. We weren’t even finished with the wrapping…*head desk*

Here comes the awesome plan!

A customized Christmas planner/to-do list ready in time to use for next year! Be on the lookout for a .pdf to purchase in June! Along the way – I’ll be sharing tips and tricks to kick start your holiday and keep in high gear!

This planner will be for a kid-friendly, family oriented Christmas with light entertaining. We aren’t cooking for 50 people. God bless you if you do that.

I’ll be using the planner and creating a Facebook group for everyone to share about their experiences too!

Some of the topics it will cover:

-cleaning and meal planning

-grocery shopping

– cooking and baking

-favorite recipes

-holiday cards

-letters to and from Santa

– gift shopping and wrapping

-family activities, gatherings and crafting

– decorating

-fresh vs. fake tree

– advent calendars/elf on the shelf

If you are anything like me – you have a million plans but you get overwhelmed.

My first step is going to be making priorities. What about Christmas matters most to me? Those are the things I am going to focus on next year.

I hope you had a beautiful holiday! *hugs*

-Marjorie

Oh YAY! It’s another school day…

It’s Tuesday morning and we are sitting at the dining room table where we do 90% of schoolwork. The boys have copy books I make them to practice their handwriting and vocabulary/spelling books. They HAVE them but they are not writing in them. They are discussing/playing with a fidget cube. Daniel actually redirects and starts – Aaron is cheerfully non-compliant. Less cheerful when I get involved.

The cat is scratching up my new chair for the umpteenth time. I have a super-sized Little Mermaid mug filled with hazelnut coffee and pumpkin spice creamer.

The chair destroying perpetrator. He’s lucky he is such a pretty cat.

Today is still better than yesterday. I was struggling with my insomnia and couldn’t get myself moving until 2:00pm. Guess that was a sick day, folks.

After our writing and vocabulary practice – we are going over a growth mindset series from Khan Academy. That’s been a win – the kids have been asking about it – and I’ve heard them reference it in conversations with me and between themselves.

Daniel will probably work on his Native American project first – we’ve beaten this subject like a rug – and I had such high hopes for it. Aaron is going to work on fractions. He soaks up new math work like a sponge. We learn a new concept very fast and then we go and review old ones.

And we’re still working on writing, while discussing how no one slept while last night.

More screwing around…

I overestimate my patience. God bless teachers everywhere.

Aaron is chanting “Albert Einstein” and has taken 25 minutes to write 3 lines of text. The dogs are wrestling like lunatics in the living room but at least they aren’t snacking on cat litter or chewing my boots. Small blessings, y’all.

Aaron’s copy book – I make these semi-weekly with quotations, sayings and jokes. The kids at least sort of enjoy it – if they like what they are copying.

Daniel is re-writing Christmas songs and loudly singing his creations. Aaron just needs to write “Einstein” and WE CAN MOVE ON. So as slowly as possible with letter by letter updates is the way he’s choosing to go.

Then he threatens to erase it – and my first lovely swear comes out.

Is this a scene you are familiar with?

Later, Aaron and I spent an hour on building a Lego ice castle. He just wasn’t in the head space for sit-down and write work. We got through it – a battle at a time – but I always have the nagging feeling that we could have a better day.

Daniel worked resolutely – but he takes his time – he gets very distracted. I was pleasantly surprised and a little gratified when he self re-directed. I didn’t have to say a word! I’m still working to help them be more independent learners. Today, Aaron actually used a word book to look up spelling while writing in his journal. Small wins.

I didn’t know why I started chronicling our morning but I like how it ended up. I guess the point of this is that each day is made of good, great, not so great and just plain bad moments but the bad moments are worth the good ones.

Tuesday started like a hurricane – ended a little stormy – but there were some really great moments that I don’t want to forget.

Homeschooling: How It’s Going and Why I Haven’t Been Posting (UPDATED)

We’ve been homeschooling for about six weeks! The boys have been practicing ELA, Math, Science and Social Studies skills everyday. We do Art, Heath, Gym and Music on a rotating schedule. I’ve had mixed results.

One big impediment is the struggle I have been having with my mental illness. For the past 6 weeks or so, I have felt very overwhelmed, exhausted, and a little hopeless. I am having trouble identifying a trigger or cause. I have done my best to continue self care that I thought I had established. However, when I feel depressed it  seems to also affect my executive functioning.

In spite of these personal difficulties – my biggest concern is their education.  Much of my available energy has been put into that leaving little for my creative or personal projects.

I create a daily plan for each day following the scratched out system I started with. We are expanding our sources and working on going into good depth on many topics. A challenge I have been having is how to keep them engaged in the material we are covering – particularly history for my youngest. We have been doing a lot of reading and looking at pictures for history and he gets bored and frustrated.

There are some positive ideas I really want to implement like morning meetings and setting personal learning goals.  Right now I feel like I am keeping my head above water and not being as creative as I should be.

I felt very loved and validated the other night when my oldest son asked if we could talk at bedtime. I was worried because that’s not an every day occurance. He told me that he was very glad we chose homeschooling this year and that he thinks I am doing a good job. He went on to say that he appreciates the time I am putting into it and that it makes him happy when we go through material together. That was really good to hear and a boost I needed.

We officially kicked off our school year by naming our homeschool and discussing all of our expectations for the school year. I also had my kiddos do an interview type worksheet – so they could see what might change by the end of the year. I used my scratched out plan – and we did pretty well!

I am hoping to encourage deeper inquiry into the material. One way I am doing that is by encouraging questions that we can do more research on. My 6th grader filled out a “detective” worksheet based on the reading material we covered in history this week (how humans crossed over the Bering Land Bridge and early civilizations). He will be researching his answers to wrap up the chapter.

It’s very important to note their interests. We talked about food science during our planning session and we are currently learning about marshmallows. Apparently they were originally derived from the mallow plant and ancient Egyptians used to eat them! I’m excited about the opportunity they have to go off on tangents to explore things. A smart gentleman I work with reminded me that the internet provides endless opportunities for learning – we can start at marshmallows and continue into the habitual food of ancient Egyptians.

I am building on what they already seem to have learned and the work they did at the end of last year. My 2nd grader is working on phonics and becoming a more confident reader. He chooses a book to read aloud every day and we are working on digraphs/consonant blends. He is doing some worksheets and also practicing on IXL. My 6th grader struggled with keeping his math problems organized so we are starting on larger digit multiplication problems. He has been using graph paper as a strategy.

I am planning on bringing several of their subjects together – for instance, having them read an Inuit legend while learning about Native American tribes in history. We will probably do something with Art as well. This week, we looked at Mayan art and used markers to create art based on what we saw. My 6th grader worked with patterns and basic human forms creating almost a comic about a possible Mayan ritual. My 2nd grader drew a jaguar because it was an important and symbolic animal in the culture.

Another goal is that they take a more self-directed approach to their learning. Independent work is the reason I will stay sane. I have been able to find some peaceful and productive time while they are both engaged in an assignment. A few that really seem to work are daily journals, IXL, and math assignments. We seem to have some interruption because my 6th grader still has a hard time with spelling. I think we’ll be printing a list of common words so that he can look them up. Hopefully I can teach both of them this strategy.

How I’m Organizing Our Homeschool

It’s not pretty. In all honesty, I have about 3 days mapped out so far. I want to see how we do and what is working for us.

My homeschool space doubles as our dining room. We have two bookshelves dedicated to homeschool materials. I recently put up a small whiteboard and bulletin board set. I’m using these to keep info that we need every day. I’ll probably write the date on the whiteboard to help us all keep track.

Each of the kids have their own binder where I am keeping supplemental material and where I hope they can store their work. I also have a binder – it’s pretty rudimentary right now. I have a copy of each IHIP and a calendar for keeping attendance. I also have a place for my daily plans. I have been scratching them out on looseleaf paper organized by subject for each child.

I plan on using the internet extensively for material to fuel hands on learning. I’m really excited about science experiments, demonstrations, and projects. I have a ton of recycables and basic art supplies on hand.

I reviewed their IHIPs and started looking at the resources I’ve accumulated. I have started what feels like a small library – not that we didn’t already have one – but I purchased some workbooks and went through the books we already owned looking for non-fiction I could use for different subjects. I found out that we have a crap-ton of dinosaur books.

I felt that we needed an easy start so I used their Brain Quest workbooks to jump start our first few days. I like these because they help me to see what I need to cover in each grade level. I’m using these as a guide and a starting point for topics. We are going to be covering each topic in more depth and according to my child’s individual needs. For instance, my second grader is a developing reader. We are going to use the first BQ worksheet on digraphs as a starting point and continue practicing them throughout the week. I am going to accomplish this with worksheets I found on Pinterest. We’re also doing that with math. We are going to be working towards better understanding of the hundredths place value so we’ll study that for about a week.

I am going to cover some topics with both my 6th grader and 2nd grader. We’ll be doing a coordinated study of U.S. History dating from immigration across the Bering land bridge to… however far we get. We will also be doing Art, P.E. and music together. Music isn’t even a required subject but I think it would be terrible to miss so I’m on the hunt for some materials. In lieu of having a solid plan for Music, we’re going to start with classical composers.

I am excited and nervous about that first day. I’m not planning on jumping into lessons right away. I am going to use the first day to get them excited. We’re going to name our homeschool, talk about how we learn best, make lots of slime and maybe go on a walk. I want to find out what they want to learn about and do so I can incorporate that.